That says couples with an age gap are increasingly more at risk for divorce as the gap widens. There are still younger men out there who were raised right who aren't assholes or players. Yes, we have differences: And ahouldnt be napping around in any respect in the adventure that your no longer married.

Okay thannks for your answer and opinion. Give me a chance I guess my plea to you, world, is please talk to me before you decide about me. Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. There are always exceptions, and yes the numbers are small but exceptions.

We consider ourselves one of the lucky few that actually found the other person out there in this big world made for us. He did lied about his age initially. The only guys I knew were frat boys that got drunk and peed their beds once a week—not man material. BiteMe Send a private message. Anonymous Ever try to date someone that was almost attractive? I wish I felt the same way about him but I don't and I think it has everything to do with the age difference. What's wrong with this question? I'm attracted to a woman's character so if she doesn't have the character I like, I'm not going to date her. My significant other is fitness obsessed and it has changed my life. I need your advice.? If you're just looking to have some fun for a couple of months, maybe. My boyfriend shows me love every single day and it is in these moments I am reminded that I am exactly where I am supposed to be. Personally - no way in hell. Because this is a valuation based only on looks. I rather date someone around my age. I'm not interested in dating someone 30 years younger either as that would make me a pedo at my age. If he were younger I'd date him in a heartbeat. My parents are proud of me, they respect my decisions and they stand behind me. What I want to tell you: A couple of years ago, my husband and I, and our friends from colleg…. The people who truly love you will never leave you. Joy Send a private message. This is not to say he is being disingenuous about his respect for you Would my dad give me his blessing to marry my boyfriend should he ever ask? Dating someone 30 years older than me?

Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. Woman in early 20's Guy treats her like a queen But is 30 years older Would it be a good idea to date the guy? Delete Report Edit Lock Reported.

Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters. Hierophant Send a private message. Personally - no way in hell. Chances are he is mostly interested in the younger woman as a sex object and status symbol "Hey, I can still pull young women - I still got it!

You can listen to the exceptions but is about as useful as deciding that playing the lottery should be your retirement vehicle. Maybe you might hit big - but chances are you wont. I'd go find a younger man you can connect and grow with were I in your shoes - at least someone younger than your father who might actually know about the bands you are into and less about his AARP membership details.

Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Okay thannks for your answer and opinion. I was asking because this guy I've known for a few years really love me but he's allot older. I wish I felt the same way about him but I don't and I think it has everything to do with the age difference. He also has dating in albuquerque nm nearly grown kids. He isn't a rich man so even if I did date him it wouldn't be about the money.

If he were younger I'd date him in a heartbeat. I have yet to meet a guy my age as respectful as him. Why are older men so kind and respectful, while the younger ones are assholes and players? There are still younger men out there who were raised right who aren't assholes or players. Plenty of them in fact, they just aren't as boisterous as their knuckle dragging peers are. From my 40something perspective, a 50 something isn't terribly older than I am and I can say that men of all ages have been known to sing whatever tune he thinks a woman wants if its going to lead to her panties.

This is not to say he is being disingenuous about his respect for you Again, still plenty of younger men who have been raised right In fact, it was him who always tells me that there aren't any good younger men amung my peers and he tells me I probably won't find another guy who will love and accept me the way he does.

It was probably a way to keep my eyes on him and discourage me from looking elsewhere: This reply was removed by the author. Fabrics Send a private message. Edited on August 3, at This guy wants you To acknowledge that they may relate ex girlfriend starts dating friend you better or have more sexual stamina?

Of course not, its in his best interests to minimize your peer group as much as possible while patting himself on the back as the superior option. Any man who says you cant do better than him - is best to be avoided. And that's not about age, just common sense! There is always a chance a guy is just after one thing with a woman regardless of age I think it is rather unlikely the typical 23 year old has anywhere near the life experience the typical 53 year old has It would have to take an exceptional 23 year old who was living well beyond her years maturity wise for a long while to even come close No, I would have nothing in common with someone that much older or younger.

Himself Send a private message. I wouldn't be interested in dating a pensioner. I'm not interested in dating someone 30 years younger either as that would make me a pedo at my age. I'd much rather be with someone who is my contemporary and peer. It might be all right to casually date someone where there's an age gap, but for long-term, age difference correlates strikingly with the divorce. That says couples with an age gap are increasingly more at risk for divorce as the gap widens.

So I figure with a 5-year age gap and a frugal wedding and modest ring, our chances are pretty good, at least actuarially. This reply was removed by a moderator. No it would be like dating someone old enough to be my dad AMRtx Send a private message.

If you're just looking to have some fun for a couple of months, maybe. But long term, it likely won't work in your favor. When you hit 50, he will be 80, if he's even still alive! BiteMe Send a private message. Would I date a woman who's old enough to be my mother? If she had a very deep pocket, and, if I was attracted only to money, then of course, but I'm not the type of guy who's attracted to money.

I'm attracted to a woman's character so if she doesn't have the character I like, I'm not going to date her. You could be the hottest woman on the planet. Men are always going to say no. Because this is a valuation based only on looks. It says how long does the honeymoon phase last when dating men don't think women can hold their looks into their 50's. But look at Halle Berry There are always exceptions, and yes the numbers are small but exceptions.

I remember being in a race a few years back where they wrote the participants ages on their calves I think for age group placingI was shocked by how many completely hot 40 something women there dating someone 30 years older than me. They were clearly in incredible athletic shape and look at least 10 year younger. Halle still looks good because black don't crack apparently. It was a joke lol Yes there are some really good looking older women.

It's all about how you take care of yourself. Thewayyoulie Send a private message. Joy Send a private message. He shouldn't be dating YOU either. Lisampo Send a private message. Hello, I'm dating a guy that is 32 years older then me. I think it's ok depending on the age and maturity of both.

I'm 38 and he is turning 70 in August. He did lied about his age initially. The first date I couldn't imagine how this could work out I did agree to see him on a second date because he was such a gentleman and spark flew, dating someone 30 years older than me. We are actually planning a trip together soon. With the age gap there is definitely a obvious physical difference.

I look younger then my age too. We get the occasional stare from strangers but what can you do? Sure dating is fine I feel like age is just a number at times. Although I don't know if I'd make it long term though so maybe dating wouldn't be okay all I can think of is how hard that would be when she is 50 and the man is 80? Ask a New Question expand. Trending in Dating Anonymous Should I break up with her for good?

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